Elizabeth Allan, Co-founder, StopHazing.org

Twenty-five years ago, Chuck Stenzel lost his life, a victim of a fraternity hazing initiation. Twenty-five years ago, a devoted mother mourned the loss of her first-born son--a talented athlete and student who had a bright future before him. For months, Chuck’s death was attributed to alcohol poisoning and exposure to cold. This explanation however, haunted his mother who knew there must be more to the story. She continued to ask questions and press university officials for further investigation. Finally, she learned that Chuck “had been locked, in freezing temperatures, in a car trunk and forced to consume a lethal mix of bourbon, wine and beer." As many know, that mother was Eileen Stevens. A description of this fateful night, the ensuing months of investigation and Eileen’s quest to educate the public about the realities and dangers of hazing are detailed in Hank Nuwer’s book Broken Pledges (1990). It was this account of Eileen Stevens’ story that sharpened my awareness and understanding of hazing and catalyzed what has now been my 12+ year journey as an anti-hazing educator which includes the development of StopHazing.org.

On the 25th anniversary of Chuck Stenzel’s tragic hazing death, it is only fitting that we pause to express our gratitude for the life and work of Eileen Stevens, a dedicated community member, citizen, compassionate educator, activist, writer and friend. Eileen’s steadfast commitment to telling Chuck’s story in hopes of preventing similar tragedies brought her to make over 700 college campus visits across the United States. I consider myself to be among the many fortunate enough to be deeply touched by her commitment and compassion. Between 1991 and 1994, I had the opportunity to host Eileen on several occasions at two different universities where I was employed. In addition to bringing college audiences to their feet in response to her articulate and moving speech, I was always so grateful that Eileen would take the time to meet with me, other professional staff, and students to provide support and astute advice about the challenges of finding alternatives to hazing for many student groups. Not surprisingly, Eileen served as a role model and inspiration for a group of us who were involved in proposing and lobbying for legislation prohibiting hazing in the state of New Hampshire back in 1993. A few years later, Brian Rahill (another member of the NH group) and I developed StopHazing.org. Now, thanks to the help of many committed people and collaborators, the website continues to grow and provide the public with a source of information on hazing.

Eileen Stevens has been, and remains, at the heart of my commitment to educating about hazing. However, her influence extends beyond the bounds of “hazing educator and activist.” In the wake of losing her son, Eileen’s strength, compassion, grace, and courage to carry the message about the dangers of hazing with love and forgiveness was and continues to be nothing short of heroic. I would like to take this opportunity to thank you Eileen, for being such a positive influence on so many lives, including my own.