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Gender
& Hazing
Bad
Girls, Bad Girls, Whatcha Gonna Do?
Lyn Mikel Brown, Ed.D.
No more
sugar and spice and everything nice. Suddenly the U.S.
is filled with mean and nasty girls. Recently there have
been a number of popular books that tell us, in the words
of a New York Times Magazine cover story, that “girls
just want to be mean,” and give advice about “how
to tame them”(Talbot, 2002; See e.g., Simmons, 2002,
Wiseman, 2002). And now after much talk about “relational
aggression” comes the ultimate girl fight, full-scale “savagery
in the Chicago suburbs” as Newsweek reported it (Meadows & Johnson,
May 19, 2002, p. 37). Junior girls from the privileged
Glenbrook North High School paid for the right to be hazed
by senior girls at the annual “powder puff” football
game. After the beatings and humiliations ended, five girls
were sent to the hospital, one with a broken ankle, another
with a concussion so serious it caused memory loss, another
to receive 10 stitches in her scalp. The events were videotaped
and the news story went international.
Books
and reports that depict girls as nasty, catty and mean
are so provocative because they relay something both disturbing
and familiar. This is exactly why such a caricature is
dangerous. Fundamentally, it’s the same old same
old. It’s familiar because it conforms to all the
old stereotypes we have of girls and women—as deceitful,
complaining, and jealous. It’s familiar because it’s
an old story about the essential nature of femininity—“girls
will be girls,” naturally and indirectly mean; it’s
a stage all girls go through and from which most never
emerge. And it’s familiar in its trivializing, simplistic
notions of girls’ anger and aggression. Girls fight
about popularity and boys and clothes. The fighting is
all so, well, “girlish.” They cry and as one
author of a book on girls’ social hierarchies explained, “I
really do hate it when their faces get all splotchy, and
everyone in gym class or whatever knows they’ve been
crying”(Talbot, 2002, p. 26).
This
shift in the popular press from nice to mean and nasty
girls in recent years is very interesting and worth wondering
about--this either-or, girl as victim or girl as aggressor,
good girl or bad girl. It’s a false dichotomy with
a long history that effaces complicated realities. For
some time now feminist scholars have been interrogating
this and other binaries by connecting constructions of
girlhood to social and cultural context, history, and the
material conditions of girls’ lives (e.g., Brown,
1998; Diamond, 2000; Fine, 1992; Fordham, 1993; Hey, 1997;
Lamb, 1999; Leadbeater & Way, 1996; Fine & Macpherson,
1992; McRobbie, 1991; Phillips, 2000; Tolman, 2003; Walkerdine,
1997; Way, 1996; Ward, 1996). We know that what it means
to be a girl is contested territory. We know that the differential
ways power and privilege flow through the social body shape
girls’ realities, and that there is no typical girl,
not even a typical white girl.
In spite
of this research, the “phantasmatic idealization” (Butler,
1991, p. 21) of what a girl is supposed to be seems to
have a stranglehold on the cultural imagination. When I
saw the Barbie doll-like images that saturated the mean
girl coverage, and as I read about the near obsession with
indirect forms of aggression, I knew that the target audience
was middle class white girls (in fact, the Glenbrook incident
received such attention because it alone interrupted the
usual story of privileged white girls’ verbal aggression.).
This is “symbolic annihilation” (Dines & Humez,
1995): the tendency to ignore certain groups altogether
or only to represent them in ways that fit our socially
rooted conceptions of them. In this recent story of girls’ meanness,
we not only completely erase girls of color but we also
symbolically annihilate white girls.
This
view of girlfighting as psychological and relational warfare
has thus done little to challenge sexist or racist stereotypes.
Girls remain firmly and obsessively entrenched in the psychological
and relational. Left out of discussions about relational
aggression, racist assumptions about girls of color and
physical aggression remain unchallenged. Popular books
on the issue even seemed to undermine their own attempts
to affirm the power of relational aggression to cause girls
long-term emotional and psychological damage. Adding pejorative
labels like “fruit cup girl” to the lengthy
list of dismissive terms adolescent girls already have
for one another, even with the best of intentions, only
reaffirmed girlfighting as trivial (Wiseman, 2002). When
rooting out inevitable girl meanness becomes the singular
goal, we risk losing the bigger picture. Let’s catch,
label and fix “it” and then what? We’ll
have our girls back? And which girls are we talking about?
Neither the literature on relational aggression nor the
popular accounts of the ways girls enact it on each other
address the larger issue of power. Little consideration
has been given to the fact that a girls’ social context,
the options available to her, and the culture in which
she lives will affect how and why she aggresses. No substantive
consideration has been given to the fact that the anger
that underlies girlfighting might have something to do
with oppressive conditions girls experience in their daily
lives and that social location affects the nature and degree
of these injustices.
I’ve
been researching and writing about the complexities of
girl’s friendships and girlfighting for the past
few years.i But since my project has come to
fruition in the midst of this mean girl media frenzy, I’m
faced with the complicated task of both acknowledging girls’ real
and justified anger and aggression and the negative horizontal
forms it takes and welcoming girls’ public release
from “the tyranny of nice and kind” (Brown & Gilligan,
1992). I’m conscious of the marketable temptation
to make girls’ treatment of other girls tantalizing
or titillating or to contribute to a dangerous “girls
will be girls” message. Indeed, as we’ve seen,
girlfighting grabs our attention when it takes extreme
forms, as it so often does in the media. Because fighting
among girls or their adult women counterparts is considered
at once shocking, shameful, and funny, it’s laced
with eroticism and becomes the fodder of sit-coms, talk-shows,
and soap-operas. This is the motivation behind women’s
prison movies, various forms of female wrestling, stories
about cheerleaders or beauty queens who go awry, soap-opera
back-stabbing and Jerry Springer-type “bitch-slapping.” As
a white high school girl from rural Maine explained to
me: “guys see two girls fighting and think they’re
getting passionate and maybe the girls might start kissing
and maybe the guys can get in on it.” “Guys
invented the concept of jello-wrestling,” her friend
agrees, “so that they could watch girls fight.”
In fact,
it’s important to appreciate how the culture, from
a very early age, sets girls up for such horizontal violence
(Friere, 1970/1992). When I ask fifteen-year-old Bahtya,
Jewish and middle class from New York City, about why there’s
so much in-fighting in her public high school, she says,
simply:
It’s
the popular thing to do. TV, media, newspapers, it’s
like they teach girls you’re supposed to fight.
And if anybody had any commonsense in their head, they’d
know you don’t have to fight with the girls in
school. . . . Like I mean, you watch TV, you watch MTV,
you watch anything, and there’s always a fight
going on between the popular girls at school. A lot of
it is, I mean, you get into a fight and the whole school
knows about it. Therefore your popularity goes up. You
become more widely known. You’re the girl that’s
in the fight with the other girl. It’s like the
attention, whether it’s positive or negative. It’s
a constant competition or race for attention.
What
strikes me about Bahtya’s analysis is how closely
entwined media messages and school behavior are for her—how
she moves from one to the other without missing a beat.
Yet she also doesn’t quite believe the hype; she
has “commonsense in [her] head.” Of course
socialization is not that simple; “as the imposition
of fictional identities…(it) does not work” (Walkerdine,
1990, p. 198). Girls meet these messages with a range of
questions, responses, and experiences. But there’s
no doubt that the increase in images of girlfighting on
TV and in movies contributes to the normalizing of both
relational and physical aggression of girls toward other
girls. Rarely is there a contemporary TV show or movie
for kids of any age with a girl, token or not, who doesn’t
physically fight or isn’t verbally tough—that
is, if she has any respect or power on the show. The problem
is, that while these girls fight over a lot of things,
they almost never fight for girls’ rights or against
the unfairnesses and injustice or cruelty lobbed at other
girls. There is no prevailing counter story of girls’ friendship
or loyalty to other girls.
But fighting
itself is not the real issue. One can make a strong case
for teaching girls how to box or do karate, not only to
protect themselves, but so they can experience a full sense
of power, physical and mental. Indeed, Simone De Beauvoir,
writing fifty years ago, espoused the benefits to fighting
that transcended competitive sports which, she argued, “does
not provide information on the world and the self as intimately
as does a free fight" (1952, p. 330).
...for
a man to feel in his fists his will to self-affirmation
is enough to reassure him of his sovereignty. Against
any insult, any attempt to reduce him to the status of
object, the male has recourse to his fists, exposure
of himself to blows: he does not let himself be transcended
by others, he is himself at the heart of his subjectivity..
. anger or revolt that does not get into the muscles
remains a figment of the imagination.... This lack of
physical power [in girls] leads to a more general timidity:
she has no faith in a force she has not experienced in
her body"(De Beauvoir, 1952, p. 331).ii
It’s
this sense of power, this refusal to be reduced to the
status of object, this desire to be at the heart of her
subjectivity, that so often lies behind both girls’ growing
participation in sports and an increase in physical and
relational fighting. Indeed, Natalie Adams argues that
girlfighting is about being somebody (1999) and finds that
both cheerleaders and girls who get in trouble at school
for fighting use similar discourse to explain their choices.
They want to feel powerful, to be visible and to be respected
(Adams, 2001). Girls seek that feeling of power within
the contexts and possibilities offered to them.
The problem
is that the girlfighting girls see in the media is so often
about containing other girls, reproducing misogyny, and
policing and punishing feminine ideals rather than experiencing
subjectivity and freedom of expression. On TV “girly
girls” are now the stand-in for conventional femininity.
Weak, vapid, and stupid—from the evil head cheerleader
in Disney’s Kim Possible and Lizzie McGuire, to The
Man Show’s Juggy Squad, to The Thong Song wannabes
on MTV, they make good targets and are roundly ridiculed
and rejected. Girls who take out other girls for being “too
girly” or for being “sluts” “divas” or “bitches,” can
prove they are different, worth taking seriously, a force
to contend with--no wimps, wusses, or victims here. But
of course this is short-lived protection because selling
out other girls in this way just continues the same old
binaries—good and bad, Madonna and whore, nice and
mean—and encourages girls to do the work of policing
the borders. This repetition thus serves a particular performative
(cultural) purpose (Butler, 1991).
Girls’ anger
has a long history of being dismissed (she’s just
a bitch, has PMS) and trivialized (“You’re
beautiful when you’re angry”), and girlfighting
has long been a spectacle, enjoyed for its eroticism as
much as its entertainment value. As concerned as I was
with the hazing we all watched up-close and personal, I’m
just as concerned about who was watching the events unfold
on the field, why it was caught on videotape, passed on
to cable television, and why it went international. Girlfighting
as spectator sport—again. Why, when boys are the
perpetrators of 80% of serious violence in the U.S., is
this the story that captivates and defines us?iii
I think
in the “shock and awe” of it all—and
I use this metaphor deliberately, to signify a pyrotechnic
spectacle that distracts us, perhaps intentionally, from
an underlying moral bankruptcy--we’ve not listened
very closely or very well. The principal of the Glenbrook
School, for example, would have us think this is just “kids” with “old
scores” to settle” (just as those pondering
Columbine had us wonder about why “kids” are
shooting up schools). That doesn’t tell us enough
and worse, it effaces the real issues. This was girls fighting
over boyfriends and popularity and the seniors used words
like “bitches,” “wimps,” and “sluts” to
shame the juniors into staying on the field. It should
concern us that girls are fighting other girls in front
of video-taping boys, that girls used sexist and misogynistic
language to control other girls during and after the event,
and that their fights were primarily for boys’ attention
and favor.
The real
issue is not anger or aggression, but the disconnection
of anger from its real source. And this disconnection,
at its base, is about power (Brown, 1998; Jack, 1999).
As Gregory Maguire, in his novel Wicked reminds us, the
so-called Wicked Witches of the world have their own story
to tell and it’s by no means a simple tale. Fundamentally,
it’s a political story about battling the colonization
of girls’ bodies, minds and spirits; a story that
varies with social context, with race, class, and sexual
orientation. It’s a story about containment and effacement
and dismissal that gets acted out horizontally on other
girls because this is the safest and easiest outlet for
girls’ outrage and frustration. It’s a story
about who gets taken seriously and listened to; a story
about rage at the machine channeled through ordinary interactions
and performed in the everyday spaces girls occupy. And
it’s a story about justified anger at a world that
devalues girls and encourages them to decontaminate themselves
from all things feminine.
The problem,
then, is not girls; it’s a culture that denigrates,
commodifies, and demoralizes women and gets a kick out
of the divide and conquer consequences. I suspect, as does
Sharon Lamb (2002), that if we give girls legitimate avenues
to power, value their minds as much as their bodies, see
their rage as more than “little bits of garbage” (Hey,
1997, p. 51), they’d be less likely to go down those
nasty underhanded or openly hostile roads, less likely
to take their legitimate rage out on other girls. Let’s
stop blocking their paths with the usual sexist, racist
and homophobic trash and join them in creating counter-public
realities (Fraser, 1993; Weis & Carbonell-Medina, 2000)
that open pathways to power and possibility.
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iGirlfighting
reports interviews with 421 girls from first grade through
high school, diverse with respect to race and social class.
I re-analyzed interview data from seven studies conducted between
1986-1995 at the Harvard Project on the Psychology of Women
and the Development of Girls and now housed at the Henry A.
Murray Research Center at Radcliffe. Together these studies
provide rich interview material from groups of girls in rural,
suburban, and urban areas of the Northeast as well as the suburban
and urban Midwest; they are white girls and girls of color;
from poor, working class, middle class, and wealthy families;
in both private and public schools. In addition to these studies
I also re-analyzed interviews and focus group material from
three of my own studies on working class girls in Maine and
I collected new data from four additional contexts: one in
suburban Maine, two in New York, and one in Cleveland, Ohio.
Endnotes
iiThanks
to Natalie Adams for referring me to this passage.
iiiThanks
to Meda Cheney Linn for an earlier conversation about this
issue.
Hazing
and the Making of Men
Elizabeth
J. Allan, Ph.D.
University of Maine
Orono, Maine
“Hazing” refers
to any activity expected of someone joining a group (or
to maintain full status in a group) that humiliates, degrades
or risks emotional and/or physical harm, regardless of
the person’s willingness to participate. In
years past, hazing practices were typically considered
harmless pranks or comical antics associated with young
men in college fraternities. Today we know that hazing
extends far beyond college fraternities and is experienced
by boys/men and girls/women in school groups, university
organizations, athletic teams, military, and other social
and professional organizations, causing emotional and physical
harm and even death. Hazing practices are shaped
by power dynamics operating in a group and/or organization
within a particular cultural context. As such, hazing
also reflects societal norms and expectations around gender,
and masculinity, in particular.
Historical
Overview
Behavior
that would meet today’s definition of hazing has
been documented among male educational and military groups
for centuries. The term “hazing” however
was not commonly used in the United States until the Civil
War period when it emerged as a descriptor of initiation
jokes played on newcomers to the ranks of the military. After
the Civil War, the term “hazing” was used to
describe practices of initiating new students to the university
and maintaining order within the established hierarchy
between classes of students (i.e. upperclassmen vs. freshmen). Such
activities typically included expectations of personal
servitude and other displays of subordination to students
in the upper ranks. Occasionally however, hazing
involved what was termed “disorderly conduct” and
sometimes escalated into physical brawls causing serious
injuries and even fatalities (Nuwer 1999).
Hazing
practices today continue to reflect the masculine historical
roots of military units and universities. However,
documentation of hazing in high schools, organized athletics,
as well as professional groups like police academies and
firefighting units has grown considerably. Over the
last century, and especially the last three decades, awareness
and concern about the dangers of hazing has increased,
marked for example by its inclusion in many school and
university codes of student conduct. Since the 1970s
there has been at least one student fatality each year
involving hazing (Nuwer 1999, 237). Such tragedies
often led to increased public scrutiny and sometimes resulted
in the passage of statutory legislation rendering hazing
a criminal act. Today in the United States, forty-four
states have enacted anti-hazing laws that vary widely in
scope and consequence but are typically restricted to behavior
occurring in educational arenas.
Hazing
activities are generally considered to be: physically
abusive, hazardous, and/or sexually violating. The
specific behaviors or activities within these categories
vary widely among participants, groups and settings. Alcohol
use is common in nearly all types of hazing. Other examples
of typical hazing practices include: personal servitude;
sleep deprivation and restrictions on personal hygiene;
yelling, swearing and insulting new members/rookies; being
forced to wear embarrassing or humiliating attire in public;
consumption of vile substances or smearing of such on one’s
skin; brandings; physical beatings; binge drinking and
drinking games; sexual simulation and sexual assault.
Research
on Hazing
Empirical
research on hazing is scarce, and to date, there has been
no systematic investigation examining the role of gender
in hazing. The most recent and extensive studies
have focused on hazing for male and female high school
students and intercollegiate athletes. Results of these
studies indicated that 48 percent of high school student
group members reported being subjected to hazing (Alfred
2000) and 79 percent of NCAA athlete respondents reported
experiencing one or more typical hazing behaviors as part
of team initiations (Alfred 1999). National news
accounts of hazing and anecdotal evidence point toward
gender differences in hazing activities. In general,
a common conclusion drawn is that hazing among men is more
likely to be violent in nature and hazing among women is
more likely to be psychological/emotional in nature. Such
perspectives align with and also reinforce predominant
understandings of differences between the genders. The
results of the Alfred/NCAA study, revealed differences
between types of hazing experienced by male and female
athletes. Notably, women were less likely than men
to be subjected to unacceptable acts including: destroying
or stealing property, beatings, being tied up or taped,
confined to small places, paddled, kidnapped or transported
and abandoned (Alfred University 1999). This finding
supports the assertion that sex/gender differences in hazing
experiences do exist. For some, this distinction
is simply attributed to innate biological differences between
the sexes. Others however draw on a social constructionist
perspective to argue that these differences are largely
the result of learning to perform gender roles differently
(Allan forthcoming).
Several
ethnographic and journalistic accounts of fraternity life
(Nuwer 1990, 1999) and athletics (Robinson 1998) provide
some insights about hazing practices. A number of
these examinations rely substantially on theories of gender,
sexism and homophobia to explain aspects of all-male groups
that increase the probability of violence against women
who come in contact with these groups (Martin 1989, Rhoads
1995). While hazing practices may take many forms
largely influenced by the participants, group and setting;
some common characteristics can be identified and understood
in relation to predominant masculinity as practiced in
contemporary European and North American society. For
instance, when hazing occurs among men, regardless of the
type of group, it is often framed as a test of “strength,” “courage,” and “determination.”
Masculinity: “Weeding
Out the Unworthy”
How
men and women are taught to live in the world affects patterns
of violence, abuse and other behaviors involved in hazing
practices. Regardless of race and socio-economic
status, accounts of hazing incidents among boys and men
often include tests of physical endurance, forced/coerced
alcohol consumption, paddling and other forms of physical
assaults/beatings. A common rationale in support
of hazing is that it is a “tradition” necessary
to “weed out” those unworthy of membership.
Research
on fraternity cultures and male athletic teams reveals
an emphasis on hypermasculinity: physical and mental
toughness, endurance of pain and humiliation, obedience
to superiors and the use of physical force and coercion
to obtain compliance (Martin 1989, Messner and Sabo 1994). Gender
theory provides a framework for understanding the ways
in which hazing is both shaped by and contributes to shaping
notions of masculinity and manhood. Some men who
have been hazed are firm believers in the abuses endured
through the process of hazing and insist they “enjoyed
the challenge.” Such arguments are embedded
in predominant cultural performances of masculinity and
what boys are taught to expect of themselves and others
as “real men.” Likewise, social anxieties around
masculinity also sustain hazing practices. The more
boys/men are fearful of being labeled as weak—the
more likely they are to participate in hazing activities
that are dangerous and even life-threatening. A chronology
of hazing fatalities reveals that men are far more likely
to die from hazing activities than are women. Of
more than sixty documented hazing deaths, only three have
been women (Nuwer 1999, 237).
Gendered
practices of hazing are supported by the role homophobia
plays in reinforcing rigid and confining expectations of
masculine and feminine behavior. This dynamic is
evidenced when for instance high school students to think
about what happens if a man is a little bit too nurturing
or a bit too emotional and they are quick to respond, “he’s
a sissy,” “he’s a fag.” Women
who cross the line of normative expectations for femininity
face similar social consequences of being called “butch” or “dyke.” These
terms are unlikely to serve as deterrents unless they are
perceived negatively, and homophobia ensures this. Thus,
the predominant social construction of masculinity, and
homophobia, work in tandem to create a climate in which
violent and demeaning hazing practices are more likely
to be tolerated and even considered beneficial for young
men (Allan forthcoming)
Understanding
masculinity as a dynamic process of “doing” gender
helps to illuminate why the eradication of hazing practices
can be difficult. Since hazing can serve as an opportunity
for men to prove their masculinity (and heterosexuality),
the elimination of hazing traditions can be threatening
on multiple fronts. Exit costs for leaving a hazing
organization increase because young men may lose a major
part of their identity by severing ties with the organization.
Further, when hazing is so closely tied to the performance
of masculinity, those who identify with predominant cultural
constructions of masculinity, are likely to fear their
manhood will be called into question if they resist an
opportunity to prove their masculinity via hazing practices. This
also explains, at least in part, why some pledges, rookies
and new members of organizations will ask to be hazed even
if the group is attempting to eradicate such traditions. Newcomers
know they are likely to be subject to scrutiny by members
who have proven their manhood through hazing. Such
scrutiny is not entirely external—but also self-imposed—as
many boys/men have been taught to think of manhood in terms
of physical prowess/strength, toughness and conquest.
Increasingly,
reports of hazing among boys/men include acts of sexual
victimization. While reports of hazing have increased
over the past decade, the humiliation and degradation,
along with the threat of group retaliation, continue to
make it exceedingly difficult for many to report such abuses. To
date, efforts to curtail harmful hazing have emphasized
legal and policy remedies. Educational and programmatic
efforts are mounting, however, such efforts are rarely
grounded in perspectives linking the performance of gender
to the development and maintenance of abusive hazing practices. Making
masculinity visible is crucial to further understanding
hazing and developing effective prevention strategies.
References
and further reading
Portions of this
essay are provided in: Allan, E. J. (2003). Hazing
in High School and College & Allan, E. J. (2003). Athletic
Team Hazing. In Kimmel, M. & Aronson, A. (Eds.). Men
and Masculinities: A Social, Cultural and Historical Encyclopedia. Santa
Barbara, CA: ABC-CLIO.
Alfred
University. 1999. “Initiation Rites and Athletics
for NCAA Sports Teams: A National Survey.” http://www.alfred.edu/news/html/hazing.
______. 2000. Initiation
Rites in American High Schools: A National Survey.” http://www.alfred.edu/news/html/hazing_study.html.
Allan,
Elizabeth J. forthcoming. “Hazing and Gender:
Analyzing the Obvious.” in Examining Hazing. Edited
by Hank Nuwer. Indiana University Press.
Martin,
Patricia Y. 1989. “Fraternities and rape
on campus.” Gender and Society. 3,
no. 4: 457-473.
Messner,
Michael A. and Donald F. Sabo. 1989. Sex, Violence
and Power in Sports. Freedom, CA: The
Crossing Press.
Nuwer,
Hank. 1990. Broken Pledges: The
Deadly Rite of Hazing. Atlanta, GA: Longstreet
Press.
_____.
1999. Wrongs of Passage: Fraternities,
Sororities, Hazing and Binge Drinking: Indiana
University Press.
_____. 2000. High
school hazing: When Rites Become Wrongs. New
York: Grolier Publishing.
Rhoads,
Robert A. 1995. “Whales Tales, Dog Piles,
and Beer Goggles: An Ethnographic Study of Fraternity
Life.” Anthropology and Education Quarterly. 26,
no. 3: 306-323.
Robinson,
Laura. 1998. Crossing the Line: Violence
and Sexual Assault in Canada’s National Sport. Toronto,
Canada: McClelland and Stewart.
StopHazing.org. http://www.stophazing.org.
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